I'm the kind of mom who forgets things. I forget that it's library day, I forget that it's a PD Day (where is that damn bus?!), just this week I forgot to send a dish to school for a multi-cultural celebration. My daughter was appalled that she didn't get to present our traditional meal of grilled cheese sandwiches or Kraft dinner.
But on October 30th I was sure I'd forgotten nothing. We woke up that morning and dug the school calendar out of the recycling bin (I'm beginning to see where I've gone wrong) and I see marked on that day Halloween Celebration.
Now. I do pause for a moment and think "Well, that's strange, you'd think they would do the Halloween Celebration on Halloween, since it was a school day and all". But I shrug off the silly thought, check the calendar again and tell my daughter to go get her costume on. In hindsight, maybe I should have picked up the phone and checked with the school.
An hour later my little pirate looked fantastic. All decked out with her bandana and eyepatch, she's so excited to get on the bus and see all of the other kids dressed up. The bus pulls around the corner, she jumps on and I settle in on the laptop for an afternoon of solid work. A short 3 hours later she climbs off the big yellow bus and I ask, like I do everyday "How was your day?".
Hands on her hips, looking way beyond her 5 years she rolls her eyes and tells me that the Halloween Celebration is tomorrow and she was the only kid dressed up today in the whole school! Oh. My bad...or the calendar's bad..now I'm not so sure, do I know how to read a calendar?
Then she follows with this:
"But you won't believe it mom! It was class picture day and I was the only kid that got to wear my costume!!"
WHAT!?...Now a vague memory of a little slip of paper saying that the class pictures were rescheduled comes flooding back to me. How can I be expected to read everything that comes exploding from that kid's backpack at 4pm?
So here it is folks. The class picture that I will never forget and that she may kill me for a few years from now. I will keep this as a treasured memory of my organizational skills and attention to detail.
Yes. She was in the front row.